Grief sucks, but you don't have to. Part memoir, part self-help, part pick-a-path; this cheeky and honest book takes a good, hard look at society's view of grief and flips it the bird. Just like life after loss, YOU decide how to move forward . The choice is yourself you've experienced a traumatic loss (of any kind) and you want to use your experiences to make yourself better (and less bitter), then the sugar-coated platitudes everyone gives you just won't cut it.